Mansplaining
Also known as: mansplain · mansplainer
Mansplaining is a blend of "man" and "explaining," describing when a man condescendingly explains something to a woman who already knows more about the topic than he does. The term was coined on LiveJournal in May 2008, weeks after author Rebecca Solnit published her now-famous essay "Men Explain Things to Me." It quickly jumped from feminist blogs to mainstream vocabulary, landing in major dictionaries by 2014 and spawning an entire family of "-splaining" derivatives that are still in heavy rotation across social media.
TL;DR
Mansplaining is a blend of "man" and "explaining," describing when a man condescendingly explains something to a woman who already knows more about the topic than he does.
Overview
Origin & Background
How It Spread
How to Use This Meme
Mansplaining is typically called out rather than performed on purpose. The term is used in three main ways online:
As a label in the moment: When someone is explaining something to a person who clearly knows more about it, observers (or the person being talked at) might say "Thanks for mansplaining that" or "Stop mansplaining." The sarcastic "thank you for mansplaining" format traces directly back to the word's first recorded uses on LiveJournal.
As social commentary: People share anecdotes of being mansplained to, often with the hashtag #mansplaining on Twitter. Common formats include screenshots of men explaining women's own fields to them, or stories of men correcting women on topics like childbirth, their own names, or their own published work.
As a reaction or meme caption: The mansplaining statue photo, "Don't confuse your Google search with my master's degree" memes, and similar images often get captioned with variations on the concept.
The term works best when there's a clear gap between the explainer's assumed authority and the listener's actual expertise. A man explaining period cramps to a gynecologist fits. A man explaining how an engine works to someone who just asked how an engine works doesn't.
Cultural Impact
Full History
Fun Facts
Rebecca Solnit's party anecdote involved a man who hadn't actually read the "very important Muybridge book" he was lecturing her about. He'd only read about it in the New York Times Book Review.
The man at the party had to be told "That's her book" three or four times by Solnit's friend Sallie before it registered. Then, "as if in a nineteenth-century novel, he went ashen".
One blogger wrote a self-reflective post in 2009 about mansplaining feminism to a young woman at a quiz bowl competition. Her response to his recommendation of "The Beauty Myth" was: "I don't read that dykey stuff".
The German translation "herrklären" is a blend of "Herr" (Mr./gentleman) and "erklären" (to explain), mirroring the English portmanteau structure.
The verb "splain" predates the internet by over 200 years, originally as a colloquial pronunciation of "explain" in Late Middle English.
Derivatives & Variations
-splaining suffix:
Dictionary.com added "-splain" as a standalone combining form in 2013, recognizing it as a productive word-building element. It's been attached to dozens of identities and positions[5].
Whitesplaining:
When a white person condescendingly explains race-related issues to people of color. Senator Rand Paul's speech at Howard University drew this label[8].
Femsplaining:
A counter-term describing when a woman assumes she knows more about a man's experiences or perspective than he does. Carries a more contested, reactive connotation than mansplaining[8].
Ablesplaining:
When a non-disabled person patronizingly explains disability to disabled people. Covers everything from unsolicited advice about wheelchair use to dismissing invisible disabilities[8].
Rightsplaining:
Political variant applied when right-leaning commentators explain left-wing concerns back to left-leaning people[5].
Goysplaining:
When a non-Jewish person explains Jewish issues to Jewish people[5].
The Mansplaining Statue:
Paul Tadlock's 2006 sculpture "Classmates" at the University of the Incarnate Word, which went viral in 2015 as an accidental monument to mansplaining[2].
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